

I'm only here to shower.
Being that I work in the field of HIV prevention and sexual health I oftentimes conduct outreach in venues that some would call seedy,...


Come Out the Closet or Leave the Pulpit. Pick One!
(originally written and published June 15, 2016) I woke up this morning and my heart was still heavy. I can’t shake the images, nor do I...


Gay...what a word.
Out of all the words in the English language, very few spark the litany of opinions, views, and judgments as the word gay. I’m not...


Whore...and other labels.
Labels are important when it comes to identifying things. Many of us have kitchen cabinets filled with cans that are tagged and ready for...


Girl Relax: Straight Men DO Exist.
The other day I was surfing through Facebook and came across a post highlighting an article entitled “10 Signs on How to Tell if he is on...